Thursday, September 17, 2026

Human migration

 


                                      Tragedy of human migration

The cause of massive human migration is due to manmade disasters like wars that are forcing people to seek safety elsewhere only to find that no one wants them. Some die in the process of finding new homes and yet the migration continues. This seeks answers to the issue of migration and applauds the effort of the UN and NGOs.

Humans have been migrating ever since they stood upright in the Rift Valley in Africa millions of years ago. They have been doing so in order to find food and shelter when their place of origin could not provide them or were scarce, but it was not a serious problem because the population then was very small. 

Small groups detached themselves and moved on to find greener pastures or often to avoid conflict with larger groups over resources. This migration took place over a long period of thousands of years and was mostly voluntary. When they found a new land rich in resources like food and water, they settled down even if the new location was colder and less hospitable. They adapted to the new environment by wearing thick animal skin clothes and made strong weatherproof shelters with stones or found caves to live in. 

Thus, our ancestors moved to Europe and others moved along the coast toward the East and settled into small groups everywhere expertly adapting to the climate, food and developed distinct cultures and even their physical features. 

In very cold and harsh climates of Europe they shed their pigment and became white while those moving eastward retained the dark skin to a large extent. The inter breeding within various subgroups changed them into something similar to the Neanderthals and later to Homo sapiens from whom we all descend. 

This transformation from dark-skinned Africans into what we have become took a very long time but was the result of evolution and migration but we maintain a strong link with our African ancestors through what the scientists term as the marker gene that has been found in people living in different parts of the world today. 

With this background let us move on to the present-day migration that is taking place from Africa to Europe and from the Middle East conflict areas to Europe and even Australia or North America. It seems that people are migrating in all directions due to economic reasons and political reasons as a result of war. 

There was a time when Australia was considered a penal colony where someone in England was transported just for stealing a loaf of bread but mostly people convicted of serious crimes that included men as well as women and some children. It is a vast country that only had its native population who had arrived there tens of thousands of years ago probably as a result of ancient African migration. They had never met the white people before but welcomed them and were curious about them. 

This welcoming attitude and their curiosity diminished when the newcomers decided to treat the native population badly as inferior people and called them aborigines. They ignored their rich culture and long history and called them savages. The white population slowly grew and settled into the Eastern shores where cities like Sydney, Melbourne and Brisbane etc. were established and thrive today that are a far cry from those early days. 

Still for such a vast continent such as Australia, the total population remains miniscule at about 20 million people mostly concentrated in the Eastern part. But the government has a very strict immigration policy that restricts who can settle in Australia and accepts very few new immigrants who have to wait for a long period of time to get processed. The average waiting period to get an immigrant visa there is about 8 to 10 years. 

Still hundreds of refugees fleeing their war-torn countries in the Middle East or elsewhere risk their lives to reach Australia in rickety boats that are intercepted in mid-ocean by the coast guards and the hapless people are taken to temporary shelters on some offshore islands where they languish for years just waiting for their fate to be decided by the government of Australia. 

Often, we hear of riots, hunger strikes and deaths in those shelters because people are so desperate to get out to live a normal life on the mainland, but Australia does not want them and does not know what to do with them. They wanted to send only 2000 refugees to the USA that President Obama had agreed upon but the new president turned them down. Still more people are found in unseaworthy boats heading toward Australia hoping for a better life and often drown when such boats capsize in storms. The human traffickers make money out of them and do not care what happens to them. 

We see this tragedy almost every day when boats full of starving and dehydrated Africans are intercepted in the Mediterranean by the Italian or Spanish coast guards who then bring them to Lampedusa for temporary shelters and processing. Thousands have died trying to reach Europe this way but more follow the same route. 

The human traffickers make money, but people still die in the process. Those who survive push on to Italy, France and the UK. Some try to reach Germany, Nordic countries or Greece. You will see large squatter camps in Calais or other places where these poor people live like animals and are desperate to get their basic necessities like food, water and shelter while waiting for some countries to take them. You will see them in the streets of Rome selling cheap trinkets. You will see them in small towns of France where they sell African carvings, masks or the things they make. Their struggle to survive is long and painful. 

Economic migration: 

The economic migrants seeking jobs in richer countries were the most numerous in the last century and still number in millions today. They were brought to the colonies by the British, French, Germans and all those countries that needed cheap labor to run their farms and plantations so these migrants spread out to the British colonies from Fiji to many parts of Africa and even Surinam where they still remain today. It was easy for any Indian to travel to any part of the British Empire without visa or custom regulation in those days as bonded laborers, but many educated people went to England and settled there. There are now millions of Asians in England alone where you see them everywhere and have radically changed the demography of that small country in ways the British never thought possible. 

Some have started to resent them and want a halt to fresh immigration, so laws have been tightened and the waiting period for an immigrant visa is like in Australia still people keep coming illegally in container vans or trucks often suffocating to death in the process. It is a sad situation because small countries in Europe just can't cope with the deluge of immigrants that keep coming with no end in sight. 

They try to cross from Turkey in rickety boats to reach Greece or Italy and drown. Often their bodies as young as 3 years old wash up ashore that highlights the desperation, they face trying to find a new home.

 The war refugees: 

Now due to conflict in many countries like Iraq, Syria, Afghanistan etc. there are hundreds of thousands of very desperate people who have fled their homeland to seek new homes elsewhere where they will feel safe only to find out that no country wants them so what to do? They are not economic migrants because in their country they were people with means to live well but the war changed everything for them. If you ask them why they migrate, they will say that it is to save their lives. They want to return home when the war ends but no one knows when it will end or if new conflicts will flare up again somewhere. Some flee due to persecution and ethnic cleansing by the terrorists like those poor people in Sinjar or the Kurds. 

When India was divided into two countries, Hindus living in Pakistan fled to India and some Muslims in India fled to Pakistan and a million people died in the process. These refugees arrived with nothing and had a terrible time resettling in India because they received little help from anyone. This persecution of minorities in Pakistan and other Moslem countries continues even today resulting in migration of these poor people to safe haven. 

The UNHCR and many NGOs help to some extent these people within their limited resources and always seek more funds from donor countries, but the scale of the problem defies any attempt to help them in a meaningful way. 

There was a tent city just outside Khartoum in Sudan where hundreds of thousands of refugees from South Sudan lived in appalling conditions and dire poverty because a war was going on in the south. They went back to South Sudan when the war ended, and the UN Secretary General Kofi Anan attended the birth of a new country with great fanfare while people danced in the streets until the war broke out again between rivals and restarted the cycle of misery and death. 

I used to see the freight trains loaded with bodies brought to El Obeid during the night, but the Sudanese government did not want anyone to see their losses. 

The asylum seekers: 

Then there are those people who speak out against their illegal governments and their corrupt policies, so they are persecuted relentlessly while they seek to escape and find asylum in other countries that are sympathetic to their problems. I remember how Svetlana Alliluyeva (Stalin) who was visiting Delhi as a part of a Russian delegation escaped in disguise and reached the US embassy asking for asylum and stunned the ambassador. She was given asylum because she was who she was but this does not happen to ordinary people. 

Poor North Koreans try to escape their prison-like country and go to China from where they take trains to the Laotian border, swim across the Mekong to reach safety on the other side and escape to Thailand. From there they reach South Korea where they want to live but South Korea is only a stone throw away from North Korea that they cannot leave. They cannot cross the border strewn with landmines and other perils. Many have died trying to cross over just like in East Germany. 

The South Americans flee to the north in very large numbers escaping the death squads, the drug war, the poverty and misery in their countries and seek a better and safe life in the United States so they too climb aboard freight trains to reach El Paso or other places. They are routinely victimized by the traffickers called the coyotes who for a good sum of money sneak them into the United States and leave them to die of thirst crossing the deserts on their own. 

Now they are talking about building a wall along the border to keep out these poor people who need help and compassion, but compassion is in short supply these days. 

During the last war in Europe so many people tried to escape Germany to reach Switzerland but very few succeeded the treacherous journey risking their lives. Spain remained neutral during the war so many refugees sought asylum there passing through Casablanca that reminds me of the Ingrid Bergman movie Casablanca. Some allied prisoners kept in the Kolditz castle near Dresden tried to escape and reach Switzerland but only a few succeeded. 

Human migration for one reason or another has been going on forever and will not stop anytime soon because people want to escape to a better life somewhere else at the risk of their lives, so desperate they are. Poverty, war, persecution, pestilence and other reasons push these people, but what is the solution? 

The end of war can bring them back to their homes that they can rebuild again. Some people are moving back to Mosul that has been liberated from the terrorists and other cities are being cleared of the jihadists in Homs and Raqqa in Syria. But the jihadists are like cancer that grows somewhere else in the body so as long as the deadly ideology of hard-core jihadists remains, the war will flare up in various parts again starting the migration all over. 

The more developed countries must open their doors and take in more people who seek their help and not build walls to keep them out. The immigrants are assets and not liabilities because they help the economy grow and create jobs for others. Those fleeing persecution and death should be given priority. 

The immigrants in turn should try to assimilate into their new country as fast as they can and not remain in their own enclaves not learning the language of the country or their customs and culture. It is sad to see their self-imposed isolation in Europe and America that leads to the radicalization of their youth who then start making trouble. 

Any person who speaks many languages finds it easier to assimilate into a new society while preserving the essentials of his own. Just watch a Frenchman smile in surprise if you speak fluent French with them. They instantly open up to you and extend a hand of friendship. I know this because I have such experience. 

I believe that this beautiful world of ours has room for everyone somewhere. All we need is compassion and understanding.

                                        Human migration is a tragedy

A video of Story of Anil

 



This is a short video about me, Anil the bard. It narrates the video in English and describes my life’s journey through many countries. You will read my full story in great details in my Story of Anil in various languages, but this short video shows you in a video format that is easy to follow and listen.

It is a video generated with AI based on my biography.

Link : https://youtu.be/b-1hHruOvIs





Hospitality

 

I felt that something in my stories was missing so I decided to write about hospitality in many countries that I experienced. You may say that I was lucky because not everyone visiting a foreign country gets to experience the hospitality I received so I thought that it must be mentioned for each country. It will then become a part of my story.

Vietnam

                         Vietnamese farmers catching fish in their rice paddies

I will take you to the war time Vietnam where there was violence, disruption of normal life, poverty and prostitution but here I found the poor farmers loved me and invited to their social events with food and drinks. They would often ask me to stop my car and prepare most delicious food one can imagine.

During the rice harvest, the farmers and their children caught a lot of fish in the rice paddy which they roasted on charcoal. They put the roasted fish in a paper-thin rice paper, add shredded cucumber, some lettuce, Vietnamese basil and roll it into a burrito that they dipped in a fish sauce they called Nuoc mam. It was heavenly in taste. They were poor but they had a big heart.

Japan:

                                     Japanese fishermen with cormorants

Now I will bring you to Kyoto in Japan where I spent some time. One evening I was walking with an American ex Peace Corps volunteer through the narrow lane where we entered a pub to have some beer. The Japanese noticed us immediately and started to ask where we came from etc. and produced two large bottles of Asahi beer right away. Now mind you that the Japanese beer is served in large bottles that you will have a hard time to finish. The Japanese were now competing among themselves to show their hospitality by promptly serving two more bottles. Now we were in big trouble because they would not want us to leave and take no money for the beer. Somehow, we were able to leave after praising their hospitality, but it was just the start because a more interesting hospitality was waiting for us just down the lane.

There we saw an old person with Ho Chi Minh beard carving or making beautiful brass objects, so we stopped to watch his craftmanship. The old Japanese craftsman noticed us and invited us inside his house and politely asked us to sit down on the tatami floor. Soon his wife and children all came out to sit with us. Then his wife brought excellent Japanese food to feed us and insisted that we eat more. We were not expecting this level of hospitality, but the old man was not finished with us. He gave both of us a small gift to take home. It was a very nicely made brass object with intricate decoration on it. Can you imagine ?

The next surprise was waiting for us further down the lane. We saw a fisherman who was preparing for night sortie to catch fish in the ocean with the help of his cormorants. I had never seen cormorant fishing anywhere although I know that it is how people catch fish in China and now in Japan as well, so I was very interested. The fisherman then invited us to go with him fishing during the night, but the American was hesitant and told me that it could be risky, so I lost my chance to see how cormorants catch fish, but I greatly appreciated the invitation and said so. Three in a row was more than enough to say that the Japanese are very hospitable people

Hong Kong

                  People in Hong Kong invites you to sumptuous meal for free

Now we will go to Hong Kong. I have been to Hong Kong many times but once I decided to see the China border, so I took the train from Kowloon to get to the last station called Sheung Shui which is near the China border. Here a taxi man noticed me and agreed to show me the border, but he wanted to know if I had a place to stay. When I said no, he brought me to a small hotel run by a Chinese woman. She asked no question and gave me a clean room and clean bed right away at a low cost.

The taxi man had a name. He introduced himself as Kam Fat and we then drove to see the sights while Kam Fat talked mile a minute and asked me where I was going next, so I answered briefly that I was going to the USA to start my college education there. He was very surprised and impressed that I was on my own in an expensive country like USA. I had to tell him that I just came from Vietnam where I worked as a volunteer agronomist helping farmers.

He then invited me to his home to have dinner with him and his family in the evening. This surprised me more when I saw where he lived and how he lived. It was a slum full of wastewater logged area where people lived in ramshackle houses built on poles. There you had to walk on planks to get to their house. So, I met his family who were told about me that impressed them and were also excited so offered me excellent Chinese food. When the time came to leave, Kam Fat gave me a gift of a porcelain eagle.

They had a big heart that surprised me. I would meet Kam Fat again during my next visit to Sheung Shui. I wrote a blog called Kam Fats of this world that you can read.

USA:

                      Americans invite foreigners to their Thanksgiving dinner

My next experience was in California where I was enrolled at the University for my graduate studies. One day I started walking through the town in the evening just to get some fresh air. All of a sudden, a gentleman came out of his house and invited me to his home to share a meal with him and his family. I did not know that it was the Thanksgiving Day in the United States that people there take seriously and prepare a lot of food that may include a roasted turkey. I was naturally hesitant, but the gentleman insisted and introduced me as a student from India etc. It was amazing to experience such hospitality. His kids then asked me to tell them some stories which I did.

Algeria;

                         Algerians serve lamb and couscous dinner during Idd

I do not know how many of you have ever heard of Algeria or visited the country, but I was working there as an agronomist in the Mostaganem province. I used to ride my motorbike to go to the villages where I worked with my farmers. One day while I was riding my bike through the mountains, it started to rain cats and dogs getting me very wet. My Algerian gown made of camel wool they called Jellaba was soaked so one Algerian man came out of his house and invited me in saying Please come in. His wife then offered delicious food while my gown was being dried. Hot coffee followed while we chatted. He said that he often saw me riding my bike and wondered who I was and from which country. In Algeria only the gendarmes ride big motorbike, so he wanted to know so I said that I was working as an agronomist for the government and visit my farmers. I was very impressed by their hospitality and thanked them profusely.

The next experience was even more interesting. One day my office mates invited me to their village where they were celebrating Idd which is a great event for the Moslems. So, I took the bus to their village and found them waiting for me at the bus stop. They brought me to their home where their mother and sisters soon brought huge platter of lamb meat and couscous and fed me until I cried uncle. They never asked me if I was a Moslem and treated me like royalty. Then in the evening they brought me to a cinema where we enjoyed a film on Algeria’s struggle for independence. It was a very unique experience for me.

During my travels through many countries, I experienced such hospitality that few can write about. Was I lucky? It shows that there are many nice people in many countries I mentioned above who have a big heart and treat you with hospitality but ask nothing in return.

I will not write about the bad behaviors in some countries that I experienced but perhaps among them too, there may be good people who will receive you with friendly gestures like one time I was in Sofia in Bulgaria where people fed me and did not want to accept money. In fact, all of my expenses of hotel stay and food etc. was paid by the Bulgarian Government which surprised me. If you have some bad experience during your travel to some countries, you will not easily forget. It may be the taxi driver who over charges you because his meter does not work, or vendors of tourist junks sell to you at a high price and laugh at your back. You cannot avoid such incidence unless you learn to avoid them by walking away.

You should not lose your faith in the humanity just because you were cheated somewhere. I assure you that there are Kam Fats in many countries. They will invite you because they see something in you, they appreciate and, they will see your honesty.

Cheaters and looters



I have experienced in India some bad things that left a bitter taste in my mouth. No one likes to be cheated when he goes to a shop to buy something, the shop keeper looks at him and scans him from head to foot like what Indians do. It is an offensive behavior to say the least, but it is I suppose a part of their culture. After the scan the shop keeper makes a judgement about you like you are rich or poor, local or a foreigner etc. and acts accordingly.

If you want 5 meters of cloth, he uses the old yard stick that is short of one meter, so he sells you less cloth at full price. Once an American friend of mine visited my hometown where his wife wanted an Indian saree, but the shop keeper showed only the most expensive sarees that she could not afford. So, someone watching scolded the shop keeper and told him to show what the lady wants and can afford. The shopkeeper said in Hindi that they are rich foreigners so they can afford.

I went to a shop in Agra to buy some sarees for my wife and some silk cloth for myself. The shopkeeper turned out to be worse than a Shylock of Indian version and charged me a lot of money for the fake silk and saree of poor quality while the rikshaw driver waited outside the shop to get his commission from the shop owner. This sort of cheating so openly should not happen to a local person like me let alone a foreigner, but it does.

                    Cheaters always target Tourist buses

You will see buses clearly marked in the front in big letters TOURIST so you can imagine what happens next. This signboard on the bus attracts cheaters and looters like flies to... (I will not mention here). Now a cup of ordinary tea that normally sells for 10 Rupees is now sold for 100 Rupees, so the tourists pay and the tea seller smirks because he just made a lot of money by cheating. They have no shame or self-respect that gives India a bad name. The tourists going back home share their experience with their friends and relatives. This is how people develop stereotypes.

Once my brother was near the river during the Maha Kumbh Mela Festival that happens once every 12th year that attracts millions of pilgrims from all corners of the country and even from other countries. This creates the opportunity for the scammers, cheaters and looters who without an iota of shame take full advantage and charge the boat riders 10 times the normal rate that the poor pilgrims find difficult to accept. My brother could not tolerate it and scolded the boatman to charge only fair rate, but the Shylock here wanted his pound of flesh and said they will pay the exorbitant price because they are from South India, so it is a fair game. No one understands their language, so it is a problem.

Now I am not saying that it happens only in India because it happens in other countries as well where foreign tourists suffer. There is a market in Rome called Thieves market where you have to keep your hands in your pocket all the time because the thieves are breathing down you neck and follow you until the opportunity comes. They stole the camera of an American tourist who was carrying a backpack. The thief just unzipped his backpack and lifted his expensive camera. He complained to me, but what could I do? It is not called Thieves market for nothing. I myself was a victim of thievery in Rome when someone tried to slash the belt of the camera with a sharp blade. I was saved because the thief could not cut it through and got off the bus looking at me.

Once I was waiting for a Taxi in Manila so that he could bring me to the airport. I got one when the taxi driver asked me where I was going so I answered him that I was going to Saudi and I am a Cantero meaning a mason. He was satisfied and charged me the minimum rate. He did not know how I hoodwinked him. Such skills come in very handy in other countries.

So, if you are visiting another country, you have to know how to protect yourself from these looters and cheaters. You should wear simple clothes, carry a cheap Instamatic camera that no thief will steal in his right mind and wear a cheap 2-dollar watch that they sell on the sidewalk. Do not flash your Rolex or Omega to attract thieves. My own Tissot was stolen from my house twice, returned once but never the second time. Needless to say, that my Tissot was expensive, so I learned my lesson and stopped wearing watch now. I used to wear unwashed blue jeans and faded T shirt so I thought that I will be less visible, but the thieves have sharp eyes and have lifelong experience they keep honing at your cost.

Now, let me tell you something about Japan. People automatically think that they have Yakuza and other criminal gangs roaming the streets and bothering the common people. However, I assure you that criminals do not bother the common people because they are always busy bothering their rival gangs who want to take over their territories.

Have you ever heard that the Japanese waiters do not accept tips in restaurants? They will feel happy if you say that the food was better than excellent. They will bow with sweet smiles. Now go to any restaurant in the United States, you will be received by a sour face woman who will give you a table near the toilet or exit door even if the restaurant is nearly empty. Because among the waiters, they attend to certain tables only and get their share of tips. You will be in trouble if you do not give them tips or an amount less than what they expect or you complain about their service. It is a far cry from the gentle Japanese.

If you are waiting for a train and the train arrives a bit late in Japan, you will be very surprised to see the train drivers and other staff will kneel down in front of the passengers and ask for your forgiveness for being 2 minutes late. That is how precise they are about time. They are very polite and very gentle. Read my blog about Hospitality in my previous blog.

It is against the law in Japan to make fake advertisement to fool the buyers of anything. What the picture on a packet shows must match what is inside. If not, then they punish the seller or the company that makes the product. But we see fake advertisement everywhere and specially on TV. A Sikh fellow in India saw the picture of KitKat on Tv and wanted to buy one. He was furious when he was sold a small packet of KitKat that was not what he saw on TV. You will be in trouble if you rile up a Sikh so watch out. The worst culprits are called the people who deliver something to your gate and ask for money when you have not ordered what he delivers. This sort of scam is very common here in the Philippines

I am not a pessimist by nature and usually think that most people are good and will not cheat you or loot you in a foreign country. I learned one thing that people love their native language they speak so they will like you if you speak their language being a foreigner. I will give you one example how my French speaking ability gave me a wonderful experience in Paris one day.

Once I was in Paris waiting for a Taxi to bring me to the Gare de Lyon from where I was to take a train to Marseille but was worried seeing the heavy traffic. So, I asked the driver if he could bring me to the Gare de Lyon quickly so that I could take the train. I promised extra money if he could do it. He smiled and said Monsieur, I know back roads so I will bring you to the station quickly and he did. I was relieved and gladly gave him some extra money. Inside, I had to get my luggage from the left luggage room where I explained to the concierge that my train is about to leave so please give me my luggage, so he brought it to me while many other passengers were waiting. It was because I spoke French. Learn a foreign language. You will find it handy when you travel.

So, learn to walk away from sellers who try to sell you fake Ray-Ban and other junks. They hang around the Termini in Rome and stay away from the Gypsies who will splash ketchup on you and pretending to clean it up with handkerchief, while the kids are busy checking out your pockets. They work as a gang and use the ketchup trick and many others. A 10 year old kid is an expert thief.

It helps if you go with a native who knows all these crooks and will protect you so get to know them in advance. People will become friendly if you tell them that you are a writer or a footballer or have visited many countries. Who Knows? They may ev

Sunday, September 6, 2026

Amazing birds and sounds

 



We hear birds chirping everyday, but have you heard them in their natural habitat? Each type of bird has its own sound that will amaze you as well as their beauty.

Just play these videos one by one and enjoy their beauty and sound .

Links to the videos

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/rUPHH6O940s

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hd9Td3wXYnA

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/3sXKIkJTs9g

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/MugMXyw59ig

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/BQf9adM9lFI

40 strange birds and their sound

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CemLxxy62EY



Spoiled children

 


                                                                      Spoiled children

I have often seen spoiled children who create a scene in public by making faces if someone looks at them or stick out their tongue to show their rude behavior. Their parents just look but do not scold them or castigate them. Often such action leads to more bad behavior that disturbs everybody.</p>

Now imagine such a child who starts throwing tantrums and misbehaves towards passengers in a plane. Once I was flying from Australia when a kid just made terrible tantrums, while his mother just ignored him. The other passengers silently looked but could do nothing. So, I asked the stewardess to approach the woman to ask her to control her kids. The kid finally stopped when his mother told to stop. The passengers thanked me for making this effort.

Here, I often see kids rolling on the ground in some Malls and crying with high decibel sounds because he wanted something his parents could not afford while everybody looked or ignored. Children behave badly at home, in schools, outdoors or in public places, in buses, planes or trains. Of course, the bad behavior is not limited to children because often you will see adults doing the same but that is another story. to ask here is Why children behave badly and why the parents do not teach them how to behave properly anywhere. If you really want to see really well-behaved children, just go to the Lancaster County in Pennsylvania where the Amish raise their children well and teach them good manners, so the Amish children are very well behaved. They are polite, live simple but honest life and rarely you hear anything negative about them. The Amish people are religious people who raise their children with religious teachings.

Often the bad kids come from families that have their own problems like frequent quarrels among the parents or other siblings that affects the younger kids who imitate the crude language they hear. The TV programs that highlight vulgar and crude language also has its effect of small children. They learn aggression from TV shows that show violent scenes, crying, beatings or worse although some parents try to turn off the TV but that leads to more tantrums.

I have lived in many African countries where I watched the old people in their villages keep an eye on the kids while sitting under a tree and do not hesitate to spank the kids if they step out of line. Try this in other countries and see what happens. The parents will come running to confront the old man and may even call the police. It gives the bad kids the assurance that their parents will always back them up no matter how much nuisance the kid creates.

In many countries, the corporal punishment of misbehaving kids is normal. They do not run to the school where the teacher punishes the kids who bully others, show disrespect and break the school rules intentionally just to test the limits of their teacher or Principal. When such kids are expelled from the school, the parents confront the teacher or the School Board but do not or cannot control their children. Such children once expelled go down the wrong road and become the social deviants meaning they start keeping the company of similar students who get into drugs and sex early. Often such children come from broken homes.

Once I was in Messina in Italy where I wandered into a campsite where I saw many children playing while their mothers and grandmas looked and smiled. They were naturally curious because rarely they got to meet an Indian, so they all surrounded me and started to ask questions like who was I and where I came from etc. So, I thought that I could teach them a simple game they could learn easily and play. They did and got very excited to learn a new play which was so much fun for them. They simply needed attention that I gave them. In return they showed so much love that I was surprised. When I got tired and sat down, they started to bring food for me and started to stuff grapes, pasta etc. into my mouth. They cried when it was my time to go. Why these Italian kids were so sweet and so well behaved? You have to understand how their parents and grandparents raise them with love and attention. That is the key.

When kids do not get the attention and love they demand, they look for mischief to attract attention. Often, they grow up with siblings, that can create jealousy among them. So, it really comes down to the atmosphere the family creates where often the kids are left to their own devices that can mean more trouble.

The effect of watching cartoon shows on the TV can be tragic where the kids watch the bandits shooting people with a toy gun and say bang bang so the kid picks up a loaded gun his father had left carelessly, pointed at his 2-year sister and pulled the trigger saying bang bang. He was just imitating what he watched on TV and did not know the difference between toy gun and a real gun, so he just watched while his baby sister was bleeding to death.

This is an extreme example of neglect that had serious consequences. The parents are responsible to raise their kids properly and teach them all the good manners and right conduct. When they grow up, they become even worse in High School where they learn how to be mean from other bad girls. The humility, respect for others, develop a helping others nature, honesty, being religious, having apathy, good conscience etc. are all good traits. The schools do not teach them, so the parents are responsible. Dropping out of high school, getting pregnant because of promiscuity and into drugs and alcohol are all due to lack of restraint and bad behavior that starts at home.

Perhaps they should visit the Amish people and learn something good.


What she will be like when she grows up? Good question.


Ellora caves are a World heritage site

 


                              Kailash temple in Ellora in Maharashtra, India

If you visit the city of Aurangabad in the Maharashtra state of India, you will easily reach the World famous Ellora caves that is just a few kilometers away. The UN has designated Ellora caves as the World Heritage site that has 34 caves dug out of rocks centuries ago.

The most famous of the entire complex is the Kailash temple that was carved out of the mountain over a very long period of time by thousands of workers from top to bottom. It means that the entire complex was carved out of solid rock starting at the top and gradually giving its final shape as it is now maintaining its symmetry and very precise architectural and engineering aspect using just primitive tools of hammer and chisel.

What will surprise you is the fact that you will not find any trace of the millions of tons of rock waste that came out of the mountain after the completion of the temple. Where did the workers throw it is a mystery that baffles everybody. I was very impressed by the carved temple and the various figurines under the massive awning although the Muslim invaders damaged some of the intricate carved statues of Hindu Gods. Still, what remains will take your breath away.

There is an underground complex below the temple ground that has been sealed shut by the government after the archeologists found traces of alien technology and some artifacts that remain a great mystery so no one will know what is hidden there and what it all means.

So, watch the video and visit all the caves that an expert guide will explain to you in great details and understand why the Ellora caves are a World heritage site. There exists nothing like it anywhere in the world. To make a temple from ground up using blocks of stone can make sense because it was the normal practice since antiquity but to carve an entire complex from the top and give shape to an imaginary complex structure is great detail and keeping the form and sheer engineering used in the temple is mind boggling.


Link : https://youtu.be/6jgbM6i67dU?si=ifsKORJK7wMT_1Vg


Ajanta caves are a world heritage site

 


                                       Ajanta caves in Maharashtra, India

Ajanta caves near Aurangabad in India is a World heritage site that was accidentally discovered by a British hunter who came upon it centuries ago. It was found in an area covered with grass, vines and other vegetation that the British hunter partially removed to find many caves on the side of a hill. He had discovered a World Heritage site not knowing what he had stumbled upon purely by chance.

Today, Ajanta caves are easily accessible by bus from Aurangabad. With a guide, anyone can visit the caves the guide will show you and tell you the history of the caves in detail. He will tell you that it took hundreds of years by the Buddhists monks and workers to carve out of solid rocks all the caves.

The majesty of the carved statues inside the caves will take your breath away. It is a world heritage site that attracts millions of tourists to see what a wonderful site it is.

The video will explain to you in detail all about the Ajanta caves. If you wish to visit Ellora and Ajanta caves, then start from the city of Aurangabad in the Maharashtra state in India.

https://youtu.be/InmFDhVyszw?t=66


Anil the benefactor

 



Why Did Anil Deserve Better?

There are some people whose lives cannot be measured simply by wealth, position, or material success. Anil is one of them. Highly educated and widely experienced, he spent much of his life serving others. He worked in six countries, took on challenging assignments, and received international recognition and awards for his contributions. Yet, despite all that he achieved, perhaps his greatest quality was not his education, career, or awards—it was his generosity.

Anil believed that whatever he had was meant to be shared. He was generous to his siblings and friends, often helping them without expecting anything in return. When someone needed money, advice, encouragement, or practical assistance, he tried to help. He gave away much of what he had accumulated through a lifetime of hard work. He performed numerous favors for people simply because he believed it was the right thing to do.

But life taught him a painful lesson: generosity does not always produce gratitude.

Some of the very people Anil helped eventually disappointed him. Some siblings did not treat him with the affection and respect he deserved. Friends for whom he had sacrificed time, money, and energy sometimes disappeared when he needed understanding or support. There were occasions when he was treated poorly by people who had benefited from his kindness.

That raises a difficult question: Why does a good person sometimes receive such poor treatment from others?

Perhaps because goodness can be mistaken for weakness. A person who is always willing to help may be taken for granted. Someone who rarely says “no” can become the person everyone expects to rescue them. And when generosity is repeatedly available, people may forget that behind it is a human being with feelings, disappointments, and needs of his own.

There is another painful truth. We often expect the people closest to us to understand our worth. But closeness does not always produce appreciation. Sometimes strangers recognize our value more clearly than relatives or old friends.

Anil’s story therefore is not simply a story of disappointment. It is also a story of character. He remained honest. He continued helping those who genuinely needed help. He did not become cruel simply because others had been unkind to him. His generosity was a choice, and his goodness was part of who he was.

But being a good person does not mean accepting endless disrespect. Perhaps one of life’s final lessons is that generosity needs wisdom. Helping others is noble, but a person must also protect his dignity, set boundaries, and recognize who truly values him.

Anil deserved better—not because he was highly educated, internationally recognized, or financially generous, but because he treated people with humanity.

If some people failed to appreciate him, that does not diminish his worth. Sometimes the tragedy of a good heart is that it gives too much to people who understand its value only after it is gone.


Just ask

 


I wanted to write this blog based on my own personal experience that opened up doors for me in a very unexpected way.

A long time ago when I was young and applied for a passport so that I could go to Vietnam as a volunteer agronomist, the passport office kept telling me that it was under process, so I patiently waited. Many months passed but no passport came. So finally, I decided to go to the passport office to ask why my passport was being delayed. The officer was a gentleman who explained to me that I was going to Vietnam where there was a war going on so the government wanted to discourage me by the delaying tactics. India did not support the American war there and did not want any Indian to go there.

So, I asked what I should do to convince that I am going to Vietnam for a noble cause to help and work with the farmers there as an agronomist. He said that my file has been sent to Delhi where the big boss will decide what to do with my case and gave me a name and the address of someone who may be of some help in this matter.

I then took the train the same day and arrived in Delhi the next day and went straight to the address I was given. There I met the big boss who received me right away and asked me the reason why I was risking my life to go to Vietnam where a fierce war was going on and that too for 80 dollars a month stipend. I said that many young people like me from other countries were working in Vietnam for a stipend of only 80 dollars a month so why couldn’t I? I did not believe that anything bad will happen to me there.

He smiled and said my cause in noble so I should return home and promised to do what needed to be done. My passport came just after 7 days. If I had not asked him to help me, I would have never received my passport, and my life would have been very different.

My second experience was more interesting that had a profound effect on my life and my career. It so happened that once I was in Los Banos in the Philippines where the International Rice Research Institute is located where I went to see a friend who worked there. While we were talking, the Deputy Director General walked in, and I was introduced to him as an agronomist who worked in Vietnam. He was curious and asked me a few questions and was about to go back to his office. I asked him very boldly if IRRI will consider me as an applicant for a fellowship so that I could come to IRRI to learn about modern technology in rice research that I could then use to help the farmers better.

He was a real gentleman and asked me to fill up a form that he got from his office and attach my credentials and certificates of my degrees and send it all to him. IRRI will then evaluate my eligibility and make a decision. I then went to California where I was to get my MS degree from a good college. Imagine my surprise when one day I received a letter from IRRI that said that it had found my education and experience of working with the farmers in Vietnam was impressive that helped them to decide that I was to be given a one-year fellowship.

I was at that time enrolled at Cal Poly for a graduate degree in soil conservation, so I informed IRRI that I was not free to go to the Philippines at that time. They replied that their offer will be reevaluated when I was ready after my studies at Cal Poly. I was then sent to work in Algeria for two years so I wrote to IRRI if they will still accept me as a fellow. Four years had passed since that day when I met with the Deputy Director General of IRRI. They said that their offer was still valid. This life changing opportunity came my way just because I asked.

There are many good people who will give you their time and ask you what you need. You just have to be bold, answer truthfully and just ask their help. Chances are good that they will help you if you are qualified and can convince them that your motive is noble. I have written about it all in my Biography called Story of Anil, Chapter three -Philippines that appears in anilthebard.com website.

Another way you can ask your mentor who may be your professor in college who will be happy to give you a recommendation letter that you can submit for a scholarship somewhere for your bright future. There are many fellowships and full scholarships available in many noted Universities or research centers that will accept your application and evaluate your education and experience of working in many countries. You just have to be bold and apply. If you have the right qualification, then there is the possibility that your application will be positively evaluated. If you do not succeed the first time, then try again somewhere else.

Life can be hard if you do not make the effort of asking. I do not mean that you will ask for money or other favors from people. Most people will not help you but there are good people who will guide you in the proper direction in your life. My professor in college who signed my application for a passport without the slightest hesitation because I just asked. Another mentor gave me a job in the college library so that I could earn to pay for my tuition. So, do not be shy and do not hesitate to approach the good people boldly. You will be surprised to know that there are many good people who will see something in you that will impress them.

Some people think that asking for help from others like a recommendation letter is shameful, so they do not approach. They also feel that they should not accept charity because it hurts their pride. A letter to introduce you to someone important is not a charity. They can become your mentor who can give you a helping hand and guide you toward the right direction. You may not know all the opportunities that are available so ask Chat Gpt to make a list for you based on what you want or ask Google.

Lastly, I will give you an example of what persistence means in achieving your goal. Have you ever seen a Woodpecker knocking on the hard bark of a tree to make a hole? It is hard work, but the bird does not quit. It keeps pecking until a small hole appears that it meticulously enlarges and makes a nest for the female to lay the eggs. So be like a woodpecker and keep trying. Thus, you will be able to overcome all your challenges this way.